What is it that makes people successful and I mean really successful compared to you or me? Are they smarter or do they work harder? Are they risk takers or have powerful and influential friends?
Success means something different to every person: like beauty, it exists in the eye of the beholder. It is your responsibility to determine what success means for you, and how you go about breeding success in your life.
I decided to produce the list here and comment on each of the traits in hopes of motivating you and myself in the process. It’s time for me to take my own advice and start on the path to my dreams. I hope to motivate you, by using myself as an example.
1. How You Think about Everything:
Always be positive. Think Success, not Failure. Beware of a negative environment.
This trait has to be one of the most important in the entire list. Your belief that you can accomplish your goals has to be resolute. The moment you say to yourself “I can’t…”, then you won’t. I was always given the advice “never say I can’t” and I’d like to strike those words from the dictionary.
Allah do as same as man imagine.So we must think positive,only for succes not failure.
Allah Pak Farmata Hai....
Aye ibne Adam
Ik Teri Chahat Hai Or Ik Meri Chahat Hai
Hoga To Wohi Jo Meri Chahat Hai
Haan Ager Tune Superd (hawale) Kardia Khood Ko
Uske Jo Meri Chahat hai
To Main Tujhe Woh Bhi Donga Jo Teri Chahat Hai...
Or Ager Tune Mukhalfat Ki Uski Jo Meri Chahat Hai
Tu Main Thaka Dunga Tujhe Us Main Jo Teri Chahat Hai
Phir Hoga Wohi Jo Meri Chahat Hai.....
2. Focusing on the Negatives
Yes, there are negative circumstances in life that you have no control over. There are also plenty of positive experiences in your life. I am willing to bet you have more positives in your life than negatives. You are capable of living with a positive perspective.
If you want to cultivate success in your life then you must follow the nobel life of Holy Prophet Muhammad (صلي الله عليه و سلم ) because their life is a role model for all the man kind.
In Islam we believe that:
"...Wal Qadri khairihi wa sharihi minal laahi Ta'aala...."
It mean that We must believe that every positive or negative,every joy and worry,every profit and loss is from Allah.when we believe on it then our life become easy.
You also concentrate on all the good. You shouldn’t disregard the negative, but you don’t have to give it so much of your attention. Even if you reach a level of ostensible success, your continued focus on the negatives will prevent you from relishing your accomplishments.
3. Decide upon Your True Dreams and Goals:
Write down your specific goals and develop a plan to reach them.
Goals are those concrete, measurable stepping stones of achievement that track your progress towards your dreams.
You must know that God has created Men,Women & Jin for his prayer.
God has sent to us in this world for the preparation of Exam that will be held after death.Our goal is the preparation of this Exam.
We do so much work for this life that we live here & prepare ourself for the life that is never endable which start after death.
4. Take Action. Goals are nothing without action:
Every day I try to take some action towards my goals. It may be small, but it’s still an action. Have you taken action towards your goals?
Our action is the preparation of Exam.For the preparation we must follow the great sunnah of Holy Prophet Muhammad (صلي الله عليه و سلم ).The life of Holy Prophet Muhammad (صلي الله عليه و سلم ) is a nobel example for all of us.
5. Never Stop Learning:
Go back to school or read books. Get training & acquire skills.
Al-Hadith: Sayings of the Prophet Muhammad (صلي الله عليه و سلم )
“Seek knowledge from the Cradle to the Grave”
There will be no age for learning.Life is also name of learning.Man learning start from lap of mother and also learn from up and down.
6. Be Persistent and Work Hard:
Success is a marathon, not a sprint. Never give up.
I think every story of success I read entails long hard hours of work. There is no getting around this and there is no free lunch. But, if you’re working towards something that you’re passionate about, something you love – then is it really work?
7. Learn to Analyze Details:
Get all the facts, all the input & output.. Learn from your mistakes.
I think you have to strike a balance between getting all the facts and making a decision with incomplete data,both are traits of successful people. Spend time gathering details, but don’t catch ‘analysis paralysis’.
8. Focus Your Time And Money:
Don’t let other people or things distract you.
Remain laser focused on your goals and surround yourself with positive people that believe in you. Don’t be distracted by the naysayer’s or tasks that are not helping you achieve your goals.Don't distract yourself by watching other people success.Thanks Allah in every condition then Allah grant you His Mercy.This is a way of success.
9. Being Ungrateful:
The best way to establish more contentment in your life is to be more grateful. If you want to push away happiness, joy, and bliss than be ungrateful. Gratitude breeds happiness but it also breeds success. If you are grateful for your life and everything that comprises it you are going to have a less complicated time attaining wealth and accomplishing your goals.
I don’t just mean financial wealth because wealth includes all kinds of valuables. I am not proposing that all financially wealthy people are grateful, and therefore, successful, or that all financially poor people are ungrateful, and therefore unsuccessful.
Being ungrateful is not congruent with getting ahead in life. If you crave success than observe everything you are grateful for. Your gratitude will serve as a compass for your life. It will guide your decision-making, and lead you to success.
10. Deal And Communicate With People Effectively:
No person is an island. Learn to understand and motivate others.
Successful people develop and nurture a network and they only do that by treating people openly, fairly and many times firmly. There is nothing wrong about being firm – just don’t cross the a-hole line. How do you deal with people?
